Hi Jenny,Can't wait to pick up your book!Me and my wife of twelve years (together for 18) havestarted the conversation of openingup our marriage to me meeting, flirting,and perhaps datingnew people. I've been struggling for years over jealously of my wife's sexual experience. Years of therapy, medication, and endless arguments and projections have had no lastingeffect in helping me get over my issues. I was a late bloomer anddidn't have as nearly as much experience as she had and it's been eating away at me since the beginning of our relationship. I love my wife and never want to leave our marriage but never knew what to do to be happy. We started talking about it afterI met a woman at a party that I was at alone and had an amazing connection with. We kissed and talked but that was all. I felt so amazing afterwards. My jealously began to fade immediately and my sense of self confidence started to elevate. I started to feel like maybe I might have to get out of my marriage to explore other options. But I really didn't want out.I was going to have totalk to my wife about somehow allowing this in my life and our marriage. Of course I expected herto refuse and be completely hurt by the suggestion, but to my pleasantsurprise, she is indeed open to it.My wife knew this day would come. Knowing my issues and all of the problems they have caused us, she is completely willing to do what's necessary to make me a happier person and keep our marriage together. We have always been bestfriends and she never wants that toend.I always thought that people who had open types of relationships were the ones with problems, but I I'm beginning to realize thatperhaps this will be the best thingto keeping us together forever.