My friend Suzanne Portnoy has published two eye-popping erotic memoirs that you have to read to believe. You can find them at a really interesting new website called Read and Review.
Me and my wife of twelve years (together for 18) have started the conversation of opening up our marriage to me meeting, flirting,and perhaps dating new people.
I've been struggling for years over jealously of my wife's sexual experience. Years of therapy, medication, and endless arguments and projections have had no lasting effect in helping me get over my issues.
I was a late bloomer and didn't have as nearly as much experience as she had and it's been eating away at me since the beginning of our relationship. I love my wife and never want to leave our marriage but never knew what to do to be happy.
We started talking about it after I met a woman at a party that I was at alone and had an amazing connection with. We kissed and talked but that was all. I felt so amazing afterwards. My jealously began to fade immediately and my sense of self confidence started to elevate. I started to feel like maybe I might have to get out of my marriage to explore other options. But I really didn't want out. I was going to have to talk to my wife about somehow allowing this in my life and our marriage. Of course I expected her to refuse and be completely hurt by the suggestion, but to my pleasant surprise, she is indeed open to it.
My wife knew this day would come. Knowing my issues and all of the problems they have caused us, she is completely willing to do what's necessary to make me a happier person and keep our marriage together. We have always been best friends and she never wants that to end.
I always thought that people who had open types of relationships were the ones with problems, but I I'm beginning to realize that perhaps this will be the best thing to keeping us together forever.
Hi Jenny,
ReplyDeleteCan't wait to pick up your book!
Me and my wife of twelve years
(together for 18) have
started the conversation of opening
up our marriage to me meeting, flirting,and perhaps dating
new people.
I've been struggling for years over jealously of my wife's sexual experience. Years of therapy, medication, and endless arguments and projections have had no lasting
effect in helping me get over my issues.
I was a late bloomer and
didn't have as nearly as much experience as she had and it's been eating away at me since the beginning of our relationship. I love my wife and never want to leave our marriage but never knew what to do to be happy.
We started talking about it after
I met a woman at a party that I was at alone and had an amazing connection with. We kissed and talked but that was all. I felt so amazing afterwards. My jealously began to fade immediately and my sense of self confidence started to elevate. I started to feel like maybe I might have to get out of my marriage to explore other options. But I really didn't want out.
I was going to have to
talk to my wife about somehow allowing this in my life and our marriage. Of course I expected her
to refuse and be completely hurt by the suggestion, but to my pleasant
surprise, she is indeed open to it.
My wife knew this day would come. Knowing my issues and all of the problems they have caused us, she is completely willing to do what's necessary to make me a happier person and keep our marriage together. We have always been best
friends and she never wants that to
end.
I always thought that people who had open types of relationships were the ones with problems, but I
I'm beginning to realize that
perhaps this will be the best thing
to keeping us together forever.