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Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Miraval Resort and Spa

I LOVE this place and had the most amazing visit recently. You can read my story about it for here:

Sex Talk at Miraval Resort: Want Better Sex? Let Go.

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Kathy Griffin Gets Vajazzled on My Life on the DList

Kathy Griffin gets Vajazzled for her public, poolside pap!

In case you missed it, check out my take on the Vajazzling phenom!

Vajazzling: Do You Dare to Decorate 'Down There'?

Wednesday, July 7, 2010

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Tuesday, July 6, 2010

Hallelujah. A Christian Sex Toy Shop.

Well, well, well. Just when I thought I had seen it all. Along comes Book 22, the online sex toy and accessory shop for married Christians only. (Although I don’t think they check your ID…) Sure, it’s a bit exclusionary for my taste personally. But at least they’ve got the goods. And if you think the Christian nomenclature equals tame…think again. These folks are not messing around.

What can you expect to find there? Well, there’s the “Like a Virgin Kit” that includes, Ben-Wa Balls, Tightening Gel, a Tightening Guide, and a How-to Booklet. In case your lady gets loose or (horrors) was not “pure” from the get-go. There are a wealth of masturbation sleeves, including the Head Honcho inside of which are “three suction cavities, and as you stroke the Head Honcho up and down, it creates a pleasurable vacuum.”

They actually offer a variety of sleeves, some of which include interesting disclaimers like, “This product is helpful when a married couple is unable to normally have sexaul (sic) intercourse. Sold As A Novelty Item Only.” So, do you use it to help when you can’t have “normal” intercourse or is it just a gag gift? (No pun intended.)

Items designed to control premature ejaculation? Check. Condoms? Check. Dildos. Check. They’ve got lubes to make things glide, goo to make your naughty bits taste good, trampy lingerie, and plenty of things that go “bump” in the night. Batteries required. I love that they have the vibrators and masturbation sleeves listed under “Aids.” I think I might start calling them aids. Sounds like I have an assistant!

Under Special Order they have items like “The Sexy Velcro Kit.” I could not imagine what that meant. But just one click revealed that it contains a Soft Fuzzy Red Blind Fold, a Red Pleasure Feather, Red Fuzzy Velcro Wrist Ties with Tethers, and Red Fuzzy Velcro Ankle Ties with Tethers. S & M lite. Nice.

They also offer a cyberskin extender to enhance length and girth but which can also be used with a vibrator it says. Although it too includes the disclaimer, “For novelty purposes only.” Uh huh. Me thinks the site doeth protest too much…

As for accessories, you’ll find crotchless panties, remote controlled vibrating panties, and even a “Lover’s Thong” with “Sensual Pearl-Finish Stroker Beads.” You can also find a non-piercing nipple jewelry, and “Head Candy” that will “allow you to feel and administer pleasure like never before…Certified kosher with a delicious passionfruit (sic) flavor!” Kosher. Good to know!

And lest you be unsure how to use these items in a “Christian” way, fear not. Book 22 links visitors to “The Marriage Bed” for guidance. It also lists a number of other sites for reference, including Christian Nymphos. It takes all kinds, my friends.

Let me reiterate, I hate to see any group claim that sex is of their domain and their domain alone. But, all kidding aside, I know that buying sex toys can be a daunting task. If this type of venue makes it easier for some to make that leap, well, it’s a decent first step. Next step – playthings and orgasms for everyone regardless of marital status or sexual orientation! One day anyway.

In the meantime, no more excuses. For the unabashed, looking for product as well as info, there’s Good Vibrations. For a site known for being particularly women-friendly there’s Babeland. For those looking for something more racy, there’s Adult Sex Toys ( And now, for those looking for something with a Christian vibe (pun intended), there’s Book 22 . God Bless America!

The Skinny on "Squirting"

Women ejaculate. I know. I know. That may come as a surprise to some. It certainly came as a surprise to me when I first heard about it. But it’s true.

I receive a lot of questions from readers, which I love. Some I’ll answer by email. But when I receive the same one again and again, I’ll answer it right here on my blog.

The emails I receive range from people who are shocked to people who are horrified to people who are simply curious, like this one.


Love your articles on Fox News. Here is a little embarrassing question but I have to know what causes this.

I am what you might call a squirter during sex. In fact I have down right gushers during orgasms. I am almost able to control it (as in on demand) as I become older. I am now 39 and I started noticing this condition in my mid 20's. I have found it is something most men strongly desire. So, I’m not complaining. But what in the world causes this?


Well, M, I’ve got good news for you and all of your fellow squirters. There is no cause for worry. Female ejaculation is perfectly normal. And it certainly isn’t anything to “complain about.” It’s just a matter of biology and sexual activity.

G-spot stimulation is generally the cause of “squirting” or female ejaculation. It is not a myth as some say. And it is most certainly not urine as some insist on suggesting. It is ejaculate and its source is the Skene’s glands. It actually bears some similarity to the fluid produced by the male prostate.

Although it can seem like a lot of fluid, women generally ejaculate no more than 2 to 3 teaspoons at a time (although some have been known to produce a cup of liquid or more) and it is a perfectly healthy thing to experience.

Stimulating the g-spot with curved fingers moving inside the vagina in a “come hither” fashion or using a curved g-spot toy like the G-Ki
or the MONA is the best way to cause a woman to ejaculate.

Deep breathing and squeezing the PC muscles at the same time can also help, as can adding in some clitoral stimulation (manual, oral, or with a vibrator). And be sure to withdraw anything inside you before coming, otherwise the ejaculation may not be able to occur.

Although some women feel embarrassed or concerned about ejaculating, they really shouldn’t. And it’s important that correct information on the subject is shared so that “squirting” will no longer be a source of shame. So spread the good word about this perfectly good behavior.
Some people actually get a great deal of pleasure from watching women ejaculate and some pornography is dedicated specifically to squirting. You can find it all over the Internet from tame to wild. So, don’t worry about liking it whether you are the squirter of the squirtee. It’s all good.

Now, for the second most popular question on the topic – if you’re not a squirter now, can you become one? Survey says…absolutely. All it takes is a little practice and a lot of letting go. Right before a woman ejaculates, she may feel as if she’s about to urinate. But the chances of that are highly unlikely. And, if it happens, chalk it up to experience. A good sexual partner shouldn’t mind a bit. It’s all part of sexual exploration.

So, if you’re already a squirter, enjoy. If you’re not and would like to be, get practicing, you just might find a whole new level of sex and intimacy to enjoy. You never know until you try.

One thing I can tell you for sure though, when it comes to sex, wetter is always better…

I miss the slip n slide.

It is too darn hot in Dallas.

Monday, July 5, 2010

Anyone have this camera?

Thinking about getting this camera and would love to know if any of you have it. If so, would love to hear what you think!